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Saturday, December 13, 2025

Food For Today

 Vegetables

Margaret Cullen

Contents
I. Recipes

    Introductory note
    Vegetable recipes

II. More About Vegetables

1. Vegetables in the diet

2. Buying and storing

3. Cooking

4. Preservation

5. The food industry

6. Vegetables A to Z

Thursday, December 4, 2025

The Karen Flag

 Karen National Union Flag (KNU)








Karen National Defense Organization (KNDO)


Karen National Liberation Army


Karen Women's Organization







Karen Youth Organization 







Democratic Karen Buddhist Army



Friday, November 28, 2025

Karen Flag

The Karen Flag Product Size

High: 3ft/90cm

Long: 5ft/150cm


The Meaning of Karen Flag

Nine rays of light

- From the rising sun symbolizes the nine regions of where Karen People trace their orgins

Traditional Frog Drum

- Symbolizes unity in traditional Karen Culture

Red

- Symbolizes bravery

Blue

- Symbolizes honesty

White

- Symbolizes purity/sincerity



 

Friday, November 21, 2025

Practice Emotional Intelligent

 Let's Practice The Emotional Intelligent

1. Self-Awareness: - Keep a Journal: ​ - How: Write down your feelings, thoughts, and reactions to different situations each day. ​ - Why: Helps you recognize patterns and triggers. ​ - Example: After a stressful meeting, jot down how you felt, what caused the stress, and how you reacted. ​ - Practice Mindfulness: ​ - How: Engage in activities like meditation or deep breathing exercises. ​ - Why: Increases your awareness of your current emotional state. ​ - Example: Spend 10 minutes each morning meditating on your breath and noticing any emotions that arise without judgment. ​ - Seek Feedback: ​ - How: Ask trusted friends, family, or colleagues for honest feedback on how they perceive your emotions and behavior. ​ - Why: Provides insights into blind spots. ​ - Example: Ask a close friend, "How do you think I handle stressful situations? Is there anything I could do better?" 2. Self-Regulation: - Practice Deep Breathing: ​ - How: When you feel overwhelmed, take slow, deep breaths to calm your nervous system. ​ - Why: Reduces stress and helps you think more clearly. ​ - Example: Use the 4-7-8 technique: inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 7 seconds, and exhale for 8 seconds. ​ - Reframe Negative Thoughts: ​ - How: Challenge negative thoughts by looking for evidence to the contrary or finding a more positive perspective. ​ - Why: Helps you manage your emotions more effectively. ​ - Example: Instead of thinking, "I'm going to fail this project," reframe it as, "This project is challenging, but I have the skills and resources to succeed." ​ - Take a Break: ​ - How: Step away from stressful situations to clear your head and regain composure. ​ - Why: Prevents impulsive reactions. ​ - Example: If you're feeling frustrated during a conversation, excuse yourself to take a short walk and calm down. 3. Empathy: - Practice Active Listening: ​ - How: Pay attention to what others are saying, both verbally and nonverbally, and ask clarifying questions. ​ - Why: Shows that you care and helps you understand their perspective. ​ - Example: When someone is speaking, make eye contact, nod to show you're listening, and ask questions like, "Can you tell me more about that?" ​ - Put Yourself in Others' Shoes: ​ - How: Try to imagine what it would be like to experience the world from their point of view. ​ - Why: Increases your understanding and compassion. ​ - Example: If a colleague is struggling with a project, think about what challenges they might be facing and how you can offer support. ​ - Read Literature and Watch Movies: ​ - How: Engage with stories that explore diverse perspectives and experiences. ​ - Why: Expands your understanding of human emotions and motivations. ​ - Example: Read a novel about someone from a different cultural background or watch a documentary about a social issue. 4. Social Skills: - Practice Communication: ​ - How: Work on expressing your ideas clearly and confidently, both verbally and in writing. ​ - Why: Improves your ability to connect with others and influence them positively. ​ - Example: Practice giving presentations or writing emails that are clear, concise, and persuasive. ​ - Learn to Resolve Conflicts: ​ - How: Develop skills in negotiation, compromise, and mediation. ​ - Why: Helps you build strong relationships and maintain harmony. ​ - Example: In a conflict situation, try to understand the other person's perspective, find common ground, and work together to find a solution. ​ - Build Rapport: ​ - How: Find common interests and connect with others on a personal level. ​ - Why: Creates a sense of trust and connection. ​ - Example: Ask people about their hobbies, interests, or experiences and share your own. 5. Motivation: - Set Meaningful Goals: ​ - How: Identify goals that align with your values and passions. ​ - Why: Fuels your intrinsic motivation and makes you more resilient. ​ - Example: Instead of just setting a goal to "get a promotion," set a goal to "make a positive impact on my team and organization." ​ - Celebrate Small Wins: ​ - How: Acknowledge and reward yourself for achieving milestones along the way. ​ - Why: Reinforces positive behavior and keeps you motivated. ​ - Example: Treat yourself to a special dinner or activity after completing a challenging task. ​ - Stay Positive: ​ - How: Focus on the positive aspects of your work and life, and surround yourself with supportive people. ​ - Why: Helps you maintain a positive attitude in the face of setbacks. ​ - Example: Start each day by listing three things you're grateful for and spending time with friends and family who lift you up.


Thursday, November 20, 2025

Emotional Intelligent Books

 Emotional Intelligent Book Is really Important?

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good action to change you mind.

- Self-Awareness: - Definition: Recognizing your own emotions, strengths, weaknesses, values, and motivations. - Importance: Forms the foundation for all other components of emotional intelligence. Without understanding your own feelings, it's difficult to manage them or empathize with others. - Example: Knowing when you're feeling stressed or anxious and understanding what triggers those feelings. - Self-Regulation: - Definition: Managing your emotions effectively, controlling impulsive feelings and behaviors, and adapting to changing circumstances. - Importance: Enables you to stay calm under pressure, handle difficult situations gracefully, and maintain composure. - Example: Taking a deep breath and counting to ten when you feel angry, instead of lashing out. - Empathy: - Definition: Understanding and sharing the feelings of others, recognizing their perspectives, and showing compassion. - Importance: Allows you to connect with people on a deeper level, build strong relationships, and communicate effectively. - Example: Listening attentively to a friend who is upset and acknowledging their feelings, even if you don't agree with their point of view. - Social Skills: - Definition: Managing relationships effectively, communicating clearly, influencing and inspiring others, and working well in a team. - Importance: Helps you build rapport, resolve conflicts, and collaborate with others to achieve common goals. - Example: Actively listening during a team meeting, expressing your ideas clearly, and being open to feedback. - Motivation: - Definition: Being driven to achieve goals for reasons beyond money and status, pursuing goals with energy and persistence, and maintaining a positive attitude in the face of setbacks. - Importance: Fuels your passion and commitment, helps you overcome obstacles, and keeps you focused on your objectives. - Example: Setting challenging but achievable goals, celebrating small victories along the way, and learning from failures instead of being discouraged.

Friday, November 7, 2025

Taking Care Of Garden

 

💧 1. Proper Watering (The Most Crucial Task)

Your plants need water, but giving them too much or too little can be damaging.

  • Water Deeply, Less Frequently: Instead of a light sprinkle every day, give your garden a deep, thorough soak. This encourages roots to grow deeper, making the plant more resilient and drought-tolerant.

  • Check the Soil: Don't water just because the surface looks dry. Stick your finger 1 to 2 inches into the soil. If it feels dry, it's time to water. If it's damp, wait.

  • When to Water: The best time is in the early morning. This allows the water to soak in before the hot sun causes too much evaporation, and it lets the plant foliage dry out, which helps prevent fungal diseases. Watering in the evening is the next best option, especially in hot weather.

  • Water the Base, Not the Leaves: Focus the water directly on the soil around the base of the plant. Wetting the leaves unnecessarily can invite mold and mildew.

🌿 2. Weed Control

Weeds compete with your plants for water, light, and nutrients, so keeping them in check is essential.

  • Weed Early and Often: It is much easier to pull small weeds than large, established ones. Make weeding a regular, brief routine (like 15 minutes a day or an hour on the weekend) rather than a huge chore.

  • Get the Root: When pulling, make sure you remove the entire root. If you leave the root behind, the weed can grow back. Use a hand trowel or weeding tool if the soil is compacted.

  • Don't Let Them Seed: Never let a weed go to flower and set seed. One weed can produce hundreds of seeds, creating hundreds of problems next year!

🍂 3. Mulching

Mulch is your garden's best friend and provides three major benefits.

  • Suppress Weeds: A 2-3 inch layer of organic mulch (like shredded bark, straw, or compost) on the soil surface blocks sunlight, preventing most weed seeds from sprouting.

  • Retain Moisture: Mulch acts like a blanket, slowing down water evaporation from the soil. This means you will need to water less often.

  • Regulate Soil Temperature: It keeps the soil cool in the summer and warmer in the winter, protecting plant roots.

Note: Apply mulch around your plants, but do not pile it directly against the stems or trunks (this is called "volcano mulching" and can cause the plant to rot). Leave a small ring of space around the base.

🍎 4. Feeding and Fertilizing

Plants need nutrients to thrive, especially if you are growing vegetables that bear fruit repeatedly.

  • Start with Soil: The best fertilizer is incorporating compost and other organic matter into your soil before you plant. This provides nutrients slowly and consistently.

  • Use Fertilizers as Needed: If your plants look pale, stunted, or are not flowering/fruiting well, they may need a boost. Look for a fertilizer blend appropriate for what you are growing (e.g., higher nitrogen for leafy greens, higher phosphorus/potassium for fruits and flowers).

  • Follow Directions: Always follow the package instructions when applying fertilizer, as using too much can burn your plants.

✂️ 5. Pruning and Deadheading

This is the art of strategic cutting to improve the plant's health and appearance.

  • Deadheading: This means removing spent (dead or dying) flowers. By removing the old bloom, you prevent the plant from putting energy into making seeds, which encourages it to produce more flowers instead.

  • Pruning: Cut back any dead, diseased, or crossing branches/stems. For shrubs and trees, pruning helps maintain shape, improves airflow, and encourages new, healthy growth.

🐛 6. Monitoring for Pests and Diseases

Catching problems early is the key to minimizing damage.

  • Inspect Regularly: When you are out watering or weeding, take a moment to look at the leaves (especially the undersides) and stems for signs of trouble, like holes, discoloration, or small insects.

  • Identify First: Before reaching for a chemical, identify the problem. Many pests can be managed with simple, natural methods.

  • Simple Solutions: A hard spray of water can knock off aphids, while hand-picking off larger pests (like caterpillars) can often solve the problem.

Wednesday, November 5, 2025

House Backyard Garden

 

🏡 Step 1: Planning and Location

The success of your garden heavily depends on where you put it.2

  • Determine Sunlight: Most vegetables and many flowers need 6-8 hours of full sun per day.3 Observe your backyard throughout the day to find the sunniest spot. If your yard is shady, don't worry—you can choose shade-tolerant plants like hostas or ferns.4

  • Assess Space and Accessibility:

    • Measure your potential garden area and draw a basic sketch (graph paper is helpful).5

    • Note nearby water sources (like a spigot) for easy watering.6

    • Ensure the spot is relatively flat, as sloped areas can be difficult to manage for drainage and erosion.7

  • Define Your Garden Type: Decide what you want to grow:

    • Vegetable/Herb Garden: Focus on edible crops.8

    • Flower Garden: Choose annuals (replant yearly, long bloom time) or perennials (return yearly, shorter bloom time).

    • Combination/Mixed Garden.

  • Design the Layout: Plan key elements like:

    • Raised Beds (recommended for vegetables and better drainage/soil control).9

    • Pathways (aim for about 3 feet wide if you plan to use a wheelbarrow).10

    • Focal Points or other features (trellises, seating, etc.).11


🛠️ Step 2: Gathering Tools and Materials

Having the right equipment before you start digging will make the process much smoother.

CategoryEssential Tools
Digging & Soil PrepShovel (rounded for digging), Spade (flat edge for cutting sod/dividing plants), Garden Fork (for loosening/aerating soil), Hand Trowel (for planting).
Weeding & CuttingGarden Gloves, Hand Pruners/Secateurs (for trimming), Hori-Hori Knife (versatile tool for weeding, planting, cutting).
Transport & CleanupWheelbarrow or Garden Cart, Bucket (for debris/compost), Rake (for clearing debris).
WateringWatering Can or Garden Hose (consider a soaker hose or drip irrigation for efficiency).

Materials Checklist:

  • Lumber or kits for raised beds (if using).

  • Compost and/or topsoil to amend the existing soil.12

  • Seeds or Starter Plants (make sure they are suitable for your local climate/hardiness zone).13

  • Plant Labels.


👩‍🌾 Step 3: Preparing the Garden Bed

This is where you transform your space into a growing area.

  1. Clear the Area: Remove all grass and weeds.14 You can do this quickly by digging out the sod with a spade, or more slowly (but easily) by using the "lasagna gardening" method: layer several sheets of newspaper, then top with a 3-inch layer of compost and water it all down. Wait a few months for it to decompose.

  2. Build Raised Beds (If applicable): Assemble your raised beds and place them according to your design.15

  3. Test and Amend Soil:


    • It's best to have a soil test done (often available through a local agricultural extension office) to learn about your soil's nutrient levels and pH.16

    • Even without a test, you should generally mix in a 2-3 inch layer of organic matter, like compost, to improve drainage, aeration, and nutrient content, especially if you have dense clay or poor soil.17


🌱 Step 4: Planting Your Garden

  1. Follow the Sun: Plant things that need the most sun in the sunniest spots. If using raised beds, fill them with a mix of topsoil and compost.

  2. Plant Strategically:

    • Check the tags or seed packets for planting depth, spacing, and sun
      requirements.

    • Place taller plants (like tomatoes or sunflowers) where they won't shade shorter ones.

    • Install trellises or other vertical supports before your plants grow too large, especially for climbing plants like beans or cucumbers.18

  3. Water: Water your newly planted area thoroughly.19


💚 Step 5: Ongoing Care

  • Watering: Water regularly, especially during dry spells. Deep, less-frequent watering is generally better than shallow, daily watering, as it encourages stronger root growth.

  • Weeding: Pull weeds as soon as you see them, as they compete with your plants for water and nutrients.20

  • Mulching: Once your plants are established, add a layer of mulch (shredded leaves, straw, wood chips) around them. This helps retain soil moisture, regulate temperature, and suppress weeds.


Food For Today

  Vegetables Margaret Cullen Contents I. Recipes     Introductory note     Vegetable recipes II. More About Vegetables 1. Vegetables in the ...